Comments on: Rebound Lesbian Relationships

By: anna

anna — Mon, 05 Apr 2010 08:22:38 +0000

We are human, human’s seek love and affection and if that comes along at the ‘wrong’ time we still want it and many of us are prepared to ‘risk’ a new relationship soon after another has ended. I have entered into relationships due to lonliness or sadness in the past even which weren’t rebounds – is that anymore healthy? Lots of rebounds work really well, as long as people are honest, decent and communicate. Sometimes rebounds mean that we have to communicate and be more honest than usual which can set the foundations for true emotional intimacy in a relationship. There really are very few ’shoulds’ when it comes to love and relationships. What works for one, won’t for another!

By: Beelove

Beelove — Mon, 29 Jun 2009 11:22:47 +0000

I hate being on the rebound…hmm I feel like that's what I've done…ugh.

By: Asiauncut

Asiauncut — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 03:50:02 +0000

I agree with you Donna

By: the secret

the secret — Tue, 23 Jun 2009 07:22:35 +0000

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By: Donna

Donna — Mon, 22 Jun 2009 14:47:45 +0000

I think when relationships end badly, and you are the 'victim', it's easy to find yourself craving a warm body. I agree it's important to fully close doors before you open new ones, not only for the other person involved, but for yourself. Healing is necessary to avoid carrying baggage into a new situation.

By: Glennisha Morgan

Glennisha Morgan — Thu, 18 Jun 2009 14:46:44 +0000

I think we definitely all need that time to let our emotions air out after just ending a previous relationship. We need that time to heal completely. When people jump directly into something else it always leaves room for someone to get hurt.
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By: Asia

Asia — Wed, 17 Jun 2009 18:16:49 +0000

My friend and I had this conversation over margarita last wednesda.She asked me how I couls freely say that I was IN LOVE with two different people.She said she had never expierenced that.I told her I found myself in that place after I entered very quickly into another relationship without healing or taking the time out to address the underLYING issues with my ex.I realized that because I am a stubborn leo woman I ALWAYS did that.Moved on,cut off ALL communication,and used the next person to fill the time,space,sex and thoughts so that I wouldnt have to address anything from the "past"relationship.CAN WE SAY BAGGAGE!.I often laid next to the next one thinking about the last.Emotionally cheating ALL the time.Im trying to do better now.I realized thats why I couldnt hold any "ship"with someone I had previously dated.No relationship,friendship,or kinship of any kind.Just cut it off and kept it moving refusing to look back to "hurt"the ex by not letting them have ANY access to me.Just a pic on a website they couldnt really get into because of the wonderful private button so many social websites offer.Its wrong and Im growing and this blog helped!

By: Tami

Tami — Wed, 17 Jun 2009 10:19:52 +0000

just reminds me how complicated relationships and people in general are. **sigh**
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By: AJ

AJ — Wed, 17 Jun 2009 02:11:09 +0000

You know, as humans we need to constantly feel the "high" from that syringe of that poisonous emotion called love. For some reason, it is almost like we are addicts to love and the claws of the salvation that it brings forth. Hence the reason why when we are left with no lover, whether by amicable agreement or force…we tend to feel the need to bow to the gods of "rebound." I have so far observed that there is absolutely no need for this anymore whereas I am concerned. I have now decided to take another approach..no rebound. I just want to live, observe, and if the energy is right with that woman, I will love again eventually without rebounds.