What Are Your Relationship Expectations?

While reading the blog A Brown Girl Gone Gay, one of Alix’s entries captured my attention. It’s the one titled Love With Expectations and it’s a great post that touches on one of the most important aspects of any relationships longevity. That is the ability to examine, evaluate and meet each other’s expectations, which are next to impossible to love without. That doesn’t mean expectations [...]

Rep. Trent Franks Asserts Blacks Better Off Under Slavery

FRANKS: In this country, we had slavery for God knows how long.  And now we look back on it and we say “How brave were they? What was the matter with them?  You know, I can’t believe, you know, four million slaves.  This is incredible.”  And we’re right, we’re right. We should look back on [...]

Unconditional Love and Self-Forgiveness

The excitement that goes into carrying on an affair is worlds apart from the emotions found within a long-term, committed relationship. Long-term relationships take work, and include some of the less attractive attributes such as taking care of the household finances, cooking, cleaning, keeping the passion alive and sharing responsibilities. By its very nature, an affair tends to [...]

The Opposition To Health Care Reform

Although we strongly support the important reforms made by the Senate-passed health reform package, including a strong public option would improve both its substance and the public’s perception of it,” Bennet wrote to Reid in a letter cosigned by Sens. Kirsten Gillibrand (D-N.Y.), Jeff Merkley (D-Ore.), and Sherrod Brown (D-Ohio).
Saying Americans don’t want health care reform [...]

25 Ways To Keep My Blog Alive

Write from the heart.
Be unique, original and think outside the box.
Don’t follow every new trend.
Proofread, critique and enhance my craft.
Get faster and better at responding to comments.
Read and process first, debate later. Rinse and repeat.
Continue to respect all comments and opinions.
Make the most out of my creativity.
Exhibit diligence when organizing my blog for optimal online searching.
Network, network, network and start building a [...]

The Dark Side of Valentine’s

There is a dark side to Valentine’s Day that usually takes place the day of or the night before that special day. It’s the time most cheaters choose to spend with their mistresses. The reason for this is simple. Waiting until the day after V-Day is too obvious and the last thing they want her to think is that [...]

Gays Shouldn’t Be Allowed To…

Gays Shouldn’t Be Allowed To… [insert stupidity here]
Today I was reminded of a discussion I took part in on Facebook a few months back. A guy on my friend’s list posted an unusual update to his profile, which was in fact a follow-up to a update he posted a week prior. He wasn’t happy with the positive feedback [...]

DADT Revisited: Gay Rights Criticisms Explored

A fresh breath of cynicism is sometimes useful, but not in relation to granting American’s their civil liberties. With that said, I strongly agree with the president’s state of the union address regarding DADT, but only with the understanding that there exists no timeline on promises made. Unlike many others, I didn’t expect the important gay rights issues to be served with [...]

UIC Research Study On Domestic Abuse

Dr. Smith, a professor at the University of Illinois at Chicago (UIC) is conducting a research study on lesbian women who abuse their female partners. Her goal is to create interventions that will assist health care providers in working with abusers with violence prevention in mind. Dr. Smith is looking specifically for women in the [...]

Can You Be Friends With An Ex?

It’s not a difficult pursuit unless the relationship ended so badly there is absolutelyno chance of reconciliation. Cultivating a true friendship after the romance is dead is especially difficult if the relationship was one dimensional throughout, i.e., the physical attraction overpowered an intense emotional connection that could have been established. If the friendship was solid prior to the onset of romance, then retaining it is likely to complicate matters [...]