How Long Does It Take To Get Over An Affair?

Topic Request: From the perspective of the cheater, how long does it really take to get over an affair?   I’ve been reluctant to post new material about cheating and affairs. I worry people will think, “Is dude still going on about this shit?” I’ve received numerous e-mails with questions on the subject of infedility, and this one in particular stands out […]

You Can’t Pray Away The Gay

Being sexually assaulted doesn’t mean you are or will become, gay. Donnie McClurkin asserts that a sexual assault he experienced at the age of 8 has played a crucial role in shaping his past sexual attraction to men. What happened to him as a child was terrible, but I contend that nothing that happens to you can make […]

Domestic Violence In Lesbian Relationships

Lesbians in abusive relationships obviously feel affection for their partner or they wouldn’t be with them. I don’t know many women who would let someone they don’t love physically or emotionally assault them. I  know plenty however that do not know their own worth. I can count on both hands and half a foot the number of women I […]

20 Things To Consider About Health Care Reform

“If you don’t like your health coverage or don’t have any insurance, you will have a chance to take part in what we’re calling a Health Insurance Exchange. … You will have your choice of a number of plans that offer a few different packages, but every plan would offer an affordable, basic package. And […]