As soon as I answered the phone, her question went something like this, “So I was just another one of your mistresses too?
She had just finished reading one of my blogs, A Year Later Continued, and the incident I described on the football field resonated strongly with her because there was a similar one that occurred a few years prior [...]
There is a dark side to Valentine’s Day that usually takes place the day of or the night before that special day. It’s the time most cheaters choose to spend with their mistresses. The reason for this is simple. Waiting until the day after V-Day is too obvious and the last thing they want her to think is that [...]
Topic Request: From the prespective of the cheater, how long does it really take to get over an affair?
I’ve been reluctant to post new material about cheating and affairs. I worry people will think, “Is dude still going on about this shit?” I’ve received numerous e-mails with questions on the subject of infedility, and this one in particular stands out every [...]
Johnny Jei Le
hoist legs over shoulders
curl toes and put smiles on
her face at midnight
stuck in prose
while kisses slide across lips.
And even then
my words resonate
as she longs for long gone moments.
I could comb out my fro
’till it’s puffed, au natural.
Like a dandelion
before a soft wind
where my silly laughter
still soothes her
On hot nights and weekends.
I could cut off [...]
It’s a surreal thing, being able to devote energy into dissecting my actions, inaction and general thoughts in an attempt to reach beneath the surface of my infidelity. My ex did not know about my girlfriend initially, but she found out about her very early on. Despite that, we carried on and I adjusted to [...]
By the end of part II I had made it up the four flights of stairs to her apartment. I knocked a few times and then turned the key. I was determined and I had no idea what was in store, I just remember walking toward the sofa and not going any further. I knew [...]
A lot had happened since the big “breakup”. Some for the better and some for the worse. For the worse, I did something that I didn’t think I had the heart to do. Actually, it’s something I didn’t think I would ever really need to do so let’s just be clear on that. My ex-girlfriend [...]