Sometimes Women and Sport Don’t Mix

As soon as I answered the phone, her question went something like this, “So I was just another one of your mistresses too? She had just finished reading one of my blogs, A Year Later Continued, and the incident I described on the football field resonated strongly with her because there was a similar one that occurred a few years […]

The Dark Side of Valentine’s

There is a dark side to Valentine’s Day that usually takes place the day of or the night before that special day. It’s the time most cheaters choose to spend with their mistresses. The reason for this is simple. Waiting until the day after V-Day is too obvious and the last thing they want her to think is that […]

How Long Does It Take To Get Over An Affair?

Topic Request: From the perspective of the cheater, how long does it really take to get over an affair?   I’ve been reluctant to post new material about cheating and affairs. I worry people will think, “Is dude still going on about this shit?” I’ve received numerous e-mails with questions on the subject of infedility, and this one in particular stands out […]

The Sneaky Cheater’s Masquerade Ball

Johnny Jei Le You could hoist legs over shoulders curl toes and put smiles on her face at midnight stuck in prose while kisses slide across lips. And even then my words resonate as she longs for long gone moments. I could comb out my fro ’till it’s puffed, au natural. Like a dandelion before a soft […]

In Retrospect

It’s a surreal thing, being able to devote energy into dissecting my actions, inaction and general thoughts in an attempt to reach beneath the surface of my infidelity. My ex did not know about my girlfriend initially, but she found out about her very early on. Despite that, we carried on and I adjusted to […]

The Confrontation: Part III

By the end of part II I had made it up the four flights of stairs to her apartment. I knocked a few times and then turned the key. I was determined and I had no idea what was in store, I just remember walking toward the sofa and not going any further. I knew […]

The Dark Side Of Affairs Part I

A lot had happened since the big “breakup”. Some for the better and some for the worse. For the worse, I did something  that I didn’t think I had the heart to do. Actually, it’s something I didn’t think I would ever really need to do so let’s just be clear on that. My ex-girlfriend […]