Baby Steps: Bits And Pieces Of My Weekend
Having your current girlfriend and ex together in the same room is not as awkward as most people think.I’m not sure why it’s so unpleasant for most people, but I think a lot of it has to do with the depth of the relationships, the personality and characteristics of the women and the luck factor of [...]
My Aries Taurus Cusp Has A Moon in Aquarius
My longest relationships have been with Tauruses. There is this deep, formidable, sensual reciprocity that knocks me off my feet with every connection. These bonds have withstood the test of time. There is no rushing in or out of relationships with Taurus women because affection and devotion come easy after love and trust is established, but [...]
Sometimes Women and Sport Don’t Mix
As soon as I answered the phone, her question went something like this, “So I was just another one of your mistresses too?
She had just finished reading one of my blogs, A Year Later Continued, and the incident I described on the football field resonated strongly with her because there was a similar one that occurred a few years prior [...]
Early Memories of Female Masculinity
One summer I stood outside of a highway rest area with my siblings. A big 18-wheeler rolled into the lot and parked. The driver hopped down and after securing his truck he headed toward the entrance where we stood. There was nothing distinct about his walk. Nothing special. He wore a pair of blue jeans, a plaid shirt and some work boots. His head was shaved into a buzz cut.
To this day, [...]
From Smooth Operator To Soldier Of Love
I listened to Sade’s new joint ’Soldier Of Love’ on my way to work this morning. I drove as my girl sat on the passenger side and did something she hasn’t done in ages … I honestly can’t even remember how long it’s been since she let her seat back and just laid back and relaxed the entire trip. She’s normally a [...]
Clothes Don’t Make You But They Can Break You
“I’ve always been a tomboy!” I exclaimed with a force that I hoped would resonate long after the conversation ended. My mom proceeded to say, “No, you haven’t, you liked wearing dresses.” After sincerely expressing that I never liked or enjoyed wearing either she lamented that perhaps there was truth to this. Besides, the proof was in the [...]
Love Is Imperfect Perfection
My love runs through
Broken hearts and altered souls
Exalted love was made impure
While walking paths that no bound knows
Whispering nothings sweet and minced
Empty proclamation’s dispensed
Yet still hearts deeply embedded within
Permanently encased within a permanence
A familiar feeling I became acquainted with
So while lust and desire took a hold our gift
You held on to promises made
Without pretense
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We endured the pain of turning black our past
And began anew with a surreptitious glance
We conjured replies
Monitored screens of text
When our thoughts found a room
There they privately [...]
What Are Your Relationship Expectations?
While reading the blog A Brown Girl Gone Gay, one of Alix’s entries captured my attention. It’s the one titled Love With Expectations and it’s a great post that touches on one of the most important aspects of any relationships longevity. That is the ability to examine, evaluate and meet each other’s expectations, which are next to impossible to love without. That doesn’t mean expectations [...]
Unconditional Love and Self-Forgiveness
The excitement that goes into carrying on an affair is worlds apart from the emotions found within a long-term, committed relationship. Long-term relationships take work, and include some of the less attractive attributes such as taking care of the household finances, cooking, cleaning, keeping the passion alive and sharing responsibilities. By its very nature, an affair tends to [...]
Real Talk Pt. II
See you still ain’t scratched that selfish itch
See you still ain’t stopped me from being a hopeless romantic
Ticked off cause my love gave you a number
I kept you idle for hours while away messages soothed your wonder
Told you I was no good for you
Yet you refused to let go
Figured those words would cause allergic reactions [...]
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