There’s no such thing as the perfect woman

She is beautiful, smart, charismatic, ambitious, spontaneous and sexy in every imagined way. She is everything you have wanted in a woman which for a time was perplexing because progress was slow, if any. She says she is simple, you say she is the least simple woman you have ever known. She is complicated and […]

Why Women Fake Orgasms

I’ve faked orgasms before. When I was young and didn’t know any better. I thought there was something wrong with me. I didn’t want my lovers to know that they were not satisfying my needs. Instead, I practiced the art of giving pleasure and became very good at it. So good that I didn’t have to pretend to be a […]

Curious Blues

(At the crib, Chicago, IL) Have you ever sat back and allowed yourself to feel, as strongly as you could, your deepest, most unwanted thoughts? I did that after coming across something interesting online over the weekend. Iinteresting enough to cause me to pause and revisit it more than once. After sleeping for a good 3 hours […]